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Where we’re at: I’m recapping my travels in 2019, including this retreat research trip to Israel in September. There are more details about our Israel retreats, postponed to 2021, at the end of this post.

It’s a weird time to write about travel, as the world both emerges from COVID lockdowns and faces a larger, more crucial conversation about race, power, and privilege. After a week-long pause of respect, while I continue to reflect on how Alex in Wanderland moves forward, I am back to publishing my previously scheduled blog content. Wishing all of you love and peace as we march forward. 

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It’s one of my favorite feelings — the privilege of arriving in a faraway land, one that once felt exotic, and having it start to feel like home. 

It was my third journey to Israel, when the tiny country already started to feel that way for me. And while this kind of travel can make for less-than-dazzling blog content, it really makes for some of my favorite kinds of trips — not doing a single tourist thing, just living my life in one of my new favorite cities. 

Fence Art in Tel Aviv
Hakuna Matata Tel Aviv

Juice Bar in Tel Aviv

After leaving Lebanon, my plan had been to head to Israel to attend the press preview of the Middle East’s largest yoga festival before hopping over to Egypt for my fall Wander Women Retreats in Sinai. I had been super excited about covering this gorgeous event and was crushed when the dates were moved a mere week before my arrival (very on-brand planning-wise for this region, ha), and I could no longer attend.

However, in retrospect I probably really needed to spend that week working to get all the final details of my Egypt trips together, rather than downward-dogging in the desert — shoutout to the universe for sometimes giving me what I actually need instead of what I think I want. 

Fence Art in Tel Aviv

Summer in Tel Aviv
Are you sunburnt or are you always this hot?

Fence Art in Tel Aviv

And so aside from a spontaneous, secret sneak-away to a mystery destination up north — blog post coming soon — I basically spent the week cafe-hopping with my laptop in my beloved Tel Aviv, soaking up the final stretches of a beautiful beachy summer in Israel. 

Shopping in Tel Aviv

Citizen Garden Tel Aviv
Summer in Tel Aviv

Working from cafes is common in Tel Aviv, home of the original start up nation, and lingering over a laptop all day is not just tolerated but welcomed.

I loved returning to old favorites from my previous two trips, like Citizen Garden, first introduced to me by the Vibe Israel team, and new obsessions like The Little Prince, a bookstore with a hidden garden cafe in the back.

The Little Prince, Tel Aviv, Israel

The Little Prince, Tel Aviv, Israel
The Little Prince, Tel Aviv, Israel

The Little Prince, Tel Aviv, Israel

I also tried recommendations from all of you, like Bucke Cafe, a favorite of my girl Danie Acro, who I forever seem to be just missing in Israel. It’s a favorite of mine now, too.

Bucke Cafe, Tel Aviv
Bucke Cafe, Tel Aviv

I walk basically everywhere in Tel Aviv — mostly a result of being very intimidated by the bus system, ha. But I’ve tried to maintain my ignorance, in a way, because I like the exercise, I like getting to know the city better by hitting the road, and well, who doesn’t like free transportation? But one day, I hitched a motorcycle ride all he way up to the Tel Aviv port for lunch with my girl Jannah at Wix. 

Tel Aviv Port

We had lunch in the shuk, or market, where we ordered the special of the day and were given a shot of arak as a bonus, because Israel. After lunch in the sunshine, we both retreated for a few more hours with our screens (which I have to admit, was a lot more fun post-drink.)

Wix Tel Aviv
Tel Aviv Port

Tel Aviv Beach

When we finally clocked out and wandered towards the beach to catch sunset, another very Israeli thing happened: we ran into our talented friend Or on the street, working on a photography assignment we’d accidentally walked into the frame of. The population of the entire country of Israel is about eight million. That’s the size of New York City. And yet in the short time I’ve been visiting Israel, I run into friends randomly on the street more often than I did in my years in New York.

Summer in Tel Aviv feels like a kind of never-ending celebration, and so when we finally found the optimal sunset vantage point, bubbles on the beach felt perfectly appropriate. 

Hilton Beach Tel Aviv

Summer nightlife in Tel Aviv is legendary! And while this trip in particular didn’t involve any major wild nights out (see: work pressure, tonsillitis recovery, weekend getaway, etc.) I still did manage a few cocktails with friends, here and there.

Nightlife in Tel Aviv
Nightlife in Tel Aviv

Two new favorites? Cocktails at Fontana, a posh outdoor hotel bar perfect for a date, and Le Mala, a hidden gem Mexican spot perfect for catching up with friends over margaritas. 

Nightlife in Tel Aviv
Le Mala Tel Aviv

Speaking of my tonsillitis recovery — and of dates — I was charmed senseless when a new suitor in Tel Aviv booked me in for a healing massage after I expressed anxiety that I wasn’t feeling fully recovered ahead of my upcoming marathon of retreats.

Running around the city, arriving at the mystery address of the massage therapist, I thought okay, yes, this is an example of international dating being quite fun. 

Massage in Tel Aviv
Massage in Tel Aviv

Most of my time, however, was spent with my new canine coworker — the dog I happily walked all week in exchange for full-time companionship, street cred, and cuddles.

Nothing makes you feel more like a local than temporarily dognapping a pup as your own.

Cute Dog Tel Aviv
Cute Dog Tel Aviv

Cute Dog Tel Aviv

Summer in Tel Aviv
Summer in Tel Aviv

Cute Dog Tel Aviv

Plants for Sale Tel Aviv
Cute Dog Tel Aviv

Actually, there is at least one thing that makes you feel more like a local — showing someone else around. When I realized that my Good Karma Studio aerial silks teacher Mara’s first trip to Israel was overlapping with the end of mine by a day, I excitedly made plans to welcome her to one of my favorite countries as she and her husband set off on a road trip around it.

I knew exactly where to start: Jaffa.

Raisa, Yafo, Tel Aviv

Raisa, Yafo, Tel Aviv
Raisa, Yafo, Tel Aviv

I mean, I won’t lie: the fact that my friends Jannah and Nim have an unused parking spot in one of the most parking-starved cities in the world, right in Jaffa, definitely drove (pun intended) that decision. 

After brunch at Raisa, where we were lucky enough to have Nim meet us — and order for us — we wandered the streets around the Yafo Flea Market and Abrasha Park, finally remembering to snap one sole cell phone picture of Mara and I. Facepalm.

Record Shop in Jaffa, Tel Aviv

Summer in Tel Aviv
Summer in Tel Aviv

Jaffa is such a beautiful part of Tel Aviv — a gorgeous blend of old and new. I’ve loved getting to know it better, lately. Alongside antique stores and hundred-year old clock towers sit modern galleries and swish cafes. 

Apartment Complex in Jaffa, Tel Aviv

SAGA Tel Aviv
SAGA Tel Aviv

This is also where the vast majority of Tel Aviv’s Arabic population lives, making mosques and minarets a common sight. While many are aware that Israel is the only Jewish nation on Earth, few know that over 25% of the population is another religion — about 18% Muslim, 2% Christian, and 2% Druze. I love learning about these religions and cultures.

Writing this made me curious what other nations have large Jewish populations, and I was surprised to see the US has almost as large of a “core” Jewish population — those identifying as Jews above all else — as Israel itself. Having grown up in New York State, home to almost 9% of the US’s Jewish population, probably is a factor in what makes Israel feel so culturally familiar. That, and Tel Avivians tend to think of New York as their sister city. 

(If you’re curious, France, the West Bank, and Canada come up next — as very distant third, fourth, and fifths.)

Mosque in Tel Aviv

Summer in Tel Aviv

Of course, what many the world over are aware of is Israel’s tension with Palestine. I frequently get called out, mostly on Instagram, for not having written about this in my coverage of Israel. Unlike many, I don’t feel the need to apologize for traveling to Israel — as a citizen of the USA, I know better than anyone that the government does not always reflect the will of the people, and I don’t see visiting any destination to celebrate its landscapes, culture and people as a tacit approval of the actions of its military. And as the graffiti below shows, I think the population of Israel is pretty conflicted, too.

I’m sure the people of Palestine have perspectives of their own and actually, as this blog post goes live, I was meant to be there for the first time, which I was looking forward to in order to continue educating myself on the complex conflicts in this region. While COVID delayed this trip, I know someday soon I’ll be staying at the Banksy Hotel in Bethlehem, visiting Dome of the Rock in Jerusalem, and sipping wine in Ramallah. I can’t wait to share that too. 

Street art in Tel Aviv

Because wow, I love this part of the world — and have yet to find a corner of it that didn’t excite, educate, and surprise me.

Jaffa, Tel Aviv
Jaffa, Tel Aviv

This was another trip for the books.

Summer in Tel Aviv

Summer in Tel Aviv

I traveled to Israel twice in the year that I was caring for my mom and twice it was such a comforting place to be. This is not a nation of small talk — people dive right in and dive deep. They are comfortable with grief — and it intermingling with joy. It’s a complex place, perfect for feeling complex feelings. I can’t think of a better place to heal a broken heart.

Tony and Esther Tel Aviv

Tony and Esther Tel Aviv

From my very first trip to Tel Aviv I declared “I could live here someday!” and of course the more time I spend there the more clearly I can see how many challenges that would entail — but it’s still fun to try it on for size.

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Clearly, I can’t wait to be back. In the meantime, I’m loving reliving these magical trips with you.

Thanks for following along, friends. Have you been to Israel? Is Tel Aviv on your bucket list?

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Want to explore Israel with me? Be sure to nab one of the last few spots to our Wander Women Israel: A Yoga, Diving, + Adventure Retreat  for May 27-June 3, 2021 or High Flying Israel: An Aerial Arts + Yoga Retreat for June 5-10, 2021.

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12 Comments...
  • Aussie Jo
    June 9 2020

    Another very interesting post

    • Alex
      June 22 2020

      Thanks for reading, Jo!

  • becky hutner
    June 10 2020

    OBSESSED! And I too love that feeling of returning to a place that’s starting to feel familiar.

    Sigh, travel….

    • Alex
      June 22 2020

      Right? I miss it so much… starting to confirm some 2021 travel dates is really giving me a lot to look forward to and restoring some sanity, majorly!

  • Kat
    June 10 2020

    Thank you for addressing the elephant in the room regarding your Israel coverage. Personally I would LOVE to visit Israel but my viewpoint is that by going I would be funding the government’s systematic abuse and oppression of Palestine by the very fact that I am spending money in Israel. It’s the same reason why I won’t visit a whole host of countries based upon their current regimes (yes, including the US!) However, I respect your differing opinion; I don’t feel that either of us is right or wrong, and I’m still very much enjoying your posts. There are no absolutes here.

    • Alex
      June 22 2020

      Hey Kat — thank you for sharing your thoughts in such an honest and civil way, I truly appreciate it. I really get where you are coming from and respect those that take a hard line and choose not to visit destinations that they feel are violating human and civil rights.

      What I really struggle with is I think that — and I specify that I’m absolutely not referring to you here — this is often not evenly applied across the globe. From my observations bloggers who travel to the US, to Myanmar, and even to North Korea receive less questioning and criticism than those who travel to Israel, and I can’t help but wonder if anti-Semitism is at least a small part of that equation. The conflict in the Middle East is SUCH a complex issue that asks big questions of those who ponder it — what reparations do we feel were owed for the atrocities of the Holocaust and World War II? Do we believe in the need for at least one country on earth that can act as a Jewish homeland? What compromises have to be made if we do?

      I don’t know the answers, and as an agnostic cultural Christian, I have a lot to learn to even start asking the right questions. I do know a smaller percentage of the Israeli population voted for Netanyahu than the percentage of the US population that voted for Trump, and Rabin Square was filled with Palestinian flags a few weeks ago as Israelis protested police violence against both Black and Palestinian people. I guess the Israelis that I know is are an incredibly progressive, warm community that do not feel represented by their government — and I can relate to that. Gosh, it’s so complex.

  • Tessa Faure
    June 10 2020

    Girl you know it’s on my bucket list 🤩 eagerly await new retreat dates and can’t wait for 2021. Thanks for lining up the 2 day add on – dang excited to know I’ll get to see more of Jerusalem too. These posts have made me like Tel Aviv so much that aerial retreat is calling or at least an extra day or two to just wander the streets en foot like you do

    • Alex
      June 22 2020

      Yes yes yes! Cannot wait to wander around Israel with you, girl!

  • Guy
    June 20 2020

    We’ve been thinking of visiting Israel for a while, you’ve inspired us to definitely visit now! Great post.

    • Alex
      June 22 2020

      Thanks Guy! I hope their borders open again soon.

  • Kate
    July 3 2020

    Catching up on your posts—I didn’t realize how much you were blogging at the moment! Like some above, I also am glad you’re talking about the controversy of traveling (how shall we say it?) to less than ideal countries. My husband is Jewish and so for me, it’s really up to him when we decide to go—his feelings about Israel’s govt is complicated but there’s probably other things going on regarding his identity and why he’s not ready to go there yet. Anyway, I also appreciate your comment above regarding how bloggers go to many problematic countries without getting the same types of reactions that Israel travel gets. For me, and I mean this with all love because I truly love your writing and blogging, I don’t think a blogger has to take a stance on a country’s govt or write a post about controversial issues like middle eastern peace or even cut off countries with questionable humanitarian issues (don’t most governments have those issues??). But I do think it can be troubling when bloggers who are largely made up of white women travel the world and say, essentially, I just want to judge this country based on my experience there and the food/people/landscape without taking the time to acknowledge that their race/ethnicity/nationality gives them that privilege. Obviously, all Americans have travel privilege. But not all Americans can cast aside their worries about another destination’s policies and go just enjoy the travel, ya know? And the issues a lot of writers sort of side step/don’t acknowledge their privilege about are the things that would make it harder for someone else to travel that way. I actually do think you do this—acknowledge your privilege, acknowledge the main social and political atrocities in places you are. I also think there’s always room to improve and grow and get that message out in maybe a more clear way. I think a lot of people rightfully feel sensitive right now, too, and race and justice are being spoken about in an unprecedented way. But I can’t stop thinking that I know for sure that even though many Muslims live in Israel, my bestie who is American but wears a hijab and considers herself Palestinian has a different experience traveling through Israel/Jordan than I, a white woman, would have. And she would have a very different experience in a ton of other countries due to those places racist govt’s also. For. Sure. I hope that all made sense!

    • Alex
      July 6 2020

      Hey Kate! I actually remember you bringing this up on my Instagram and I’m SO sorry I didn’t reply — I’m much more easily overwhelmed on that platform and not as thorough. I guess I’m old school and just love conversations here in the blog comments 🙂

      Anyway, I think you bring up a very valid and interesting point. Obviously for a lot of reasons and especially in recent years many US citizens kind of cringe to admit where they are from. That has never sat right with me, again for a lot of reasons, one of them being how insanely privileged we — internationally traveling US passport holders — largely are. But still, the condescension and smirk you get from residents of many countries can be, regardless of how deserving it might be, tiring. And I realize that Israel, along with the Philippines, really stands out to me as one of the rare places I’ve been and can say people’s eyes just LIT UP in acknowledgement of the fact that yes, I’m a blonde haired little American girl excited to be running around their country. I admit, that feels good, in comparison to an eye roll, you know? I need to think about how much that informs my options of those places.

      I appreciate your acknowledgement of my own frequent acknowledgement of my privilege, ha. I was definitely raised to be constantly aware of and grateful for it! But it is a lifelong process!

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